Acne scarring is treatable but there are no shortcuts. The best method currently is fractionated CO2 laser. You will have about a week of downtime and there is some mild discomfort (not pain, just a feeling of tightness and heat – like a sunburn) but you will get real results. You will most likely need more than one treatment.
In terms of filling out the face, fillers can work for subtle and natural looking changes, but I would need to see a picture to know where and how much filler to use. I mostly use Radiesse for increasing the volume of the face. It is a safe and effective filler that lasts a good amount of time.

Also I am 37 and have droopy upper eyelids, they almost rest on my upper lashes. The are not crepey but just a fold. Is there something I could do other than eye surgery?

That’s a long time to be red! You should not have to suffer through this without help.

I would go to your dermatologist and ask their advice about the redness. IPL photofacial or YAG laser treatment would be a good idea for you. You will probably need several treatments, but it is worth it.

By the way, you may want to speak to the office that did your last peel. This is a problem that they had a hand in causing, so they may want to take some responsibility in fixing it.

In terms of your eyes, I do not think that you are going to get away from having a blepharoplasty (eyelid surgery) – there’s no way to tighten that skin non-surgically. The good news is that it sounds like you have an issue that insurance may cover: when the skin folds over so much that it interferes with vision, medical insurance will cover the procedure. I would speak with an oculoplastic specialist.
Hope that helps.